I used to be a member on this web site and everyone that was in my area "last logged in 2 months ago". I received a wink on Feb 13th. from a hottie so of course I winked back and have not heard a word from him since. I am curious as to whether this web site is real? I am reading the blogs and it appears that it's still not as active as some of the other web sites. Is it that difficult to find a tall, funny, honest man in Southern California?