honestly I rarely even come on this site, and didnt realize they had forums until today---Ive been a member for years. Maybe I'll come check out the forums a bit more now that I know I can post without actually having to upgrade my account.
Poohbear - I just checked out this Forum for the first time today, but I think I replied to you in the blog section. Speaking for myself, I am unlikely to reply to a blog or any profile that does not have a picture. As a member I can tell you that eHarmony does not have IM or blogs.