hi am a 6"1' university student and i am writing a magazine article for an assignment on tall women dating shorter men. I was hoping people would be able to give me their opinions- if you have ever dated a short man or what they think about the whole situation of dating men shorter.
If anyone could help me out i would really appreciate it. Thanks!
i'm about 5'7 and i want to go out with a tall lass (say about 6'3+), i think they look elegent and beautiful, some men are funny about female height, bit i'm not one of them, i'm more open-minded, in fact i'd prefer a taller woman to a shorter woman, no offence to shorter women though
BACK IN 2003 I MET A REALLY SPECIAL LADIE NAMED JAMIE SHE WAS 6FT2 145LBS BARE FOOTED AN WITH HEELS PROBABLY OVER 6FT3 SHE HAD THE BODY STRUCTURE OF A MARATHON RUNNER I STAND A SHORT 5FT9 WITHOUT SHOES AN AROUND 5FT10 WITH THEM THIS WAS MY FIRST ONE ON ONE 2 TO 3 WEEK DATING EXPERIENCE WITH A TALLER LADIE WE REALLY ENJOYED EACH OTHERS COMPANY I ENJOYED EVERY SINGLE MINUTE OF MY LIFE WHEN I WAS AROUND HER I LOOKED AT HER AS SOMEONE I RESPECTED AN NOT AS A TROPHY MOST MEN NOW ADAYS WITH THERE SMALL 5FT SOMTHIN GIRLFRIENDS ARE JUST LOOKED UPON AS A TALLER GUY WITH A TROPHY THAT IS NOT REAL LOVE AN NOT WHAT THE COMING TOGETHER OF 2 PEOPLE SHOULD BE ABOUT THE REASON THIS WORKS IS BECAUSE SHORTER MEN KNOW HOW LUCKY THEY TRULY ARE TO BE IN THE PRESENCE OF THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE WHO CAN EMPOWER AN MOTIVATE A SHORTER MAN TO DO SOMTHIN WITH HIS LIFE AN TO TRY TO BECOME SOMEBODY IN THIS WORLD, I FEEL THIS IS IMPORTANT AS HUMANBIENS. unFORTUNITLY JUST CAUSE I DID NOT GET A KISS GOODNIGHT I MADE THE MISTAKE OF NOT CALLING JAMIE FOR 1 WEEK AN A HALF AFTER OUR SECOND DATE I REMEMBER PICKING HER UP IN MY ARMS AN CRADLING HER LIKE A BABY I KNEW I COULD PROTECT HER REGARDLESS OF MY HEIGHT AN SADLY AFTER THAT SHE DID NOT WANT TO CONTINUE TO SEE ME I LOOKED AT HER AS SOMEONE I HAD FEELINGS FOR AN WAS STARTING TO FALL IN LOVE WITH I PLEADED WITH HER BACK IN 2003 TO GIVE ME ANOTHER CHANCE BUT BECAUSE I DID NOT CALL FOR THAT 1 WEEK AN A HALF SHE HAD MENCHIONED SHE WAS STARTING TO HAVE SOME FEELINGS FOR ME OVER THE PHONE DURING THE BEGINNING OF THE CONVERSATION BUT DID NOT WANT TO SEE ME ANYMORE HOWEVER. THEN AFTER THAT I CALLED HER 5 MONTHS LATER AN SHE TOLD ME WE WERE JUST DIFFERENT AN THATS WHY SHE DID NOT WANT TO SEE ME AFTER OUR SECOND DATE SHE ALSO TOLD ME MY HEIGHT HAD NOTHIN TO DO WITH IT I ASKED HER ABOUT THAT PART AS WELL. TODAY IN 2013 THE EVENTS OF 2003 STILL HAUNT ME I LOOSE SLEEP OVER THIS SITUATION EVERYNIGHT I THINK ABOUT HER AN THAT TERRIBLE MISTAKE I MADE BY NOT CALLING I WILL NEVRE EVER FORGIVE MYSELF FOR WHAT HAD HAPPEND THIS WILL HAUNT ME FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE
Personally I think that the guy should be taller. I'm 6"7 so I'm taller than almost all girls anyway. Plus when I wear my work boots I'm like 6"9. I guess it really just matters what makes the couple happy. Cuz it kind of doesmthe same thing with the age situation ive been having. Im 6 inches taller and I'm very mature form my age and I'm 19 and she's 23 and I think she has a problem with that. She kinda treats me like a kid. In sense it is funny though.
Hi I'm 6'1 and most guys I have date were shorter. I always had this feeling that I would hurt them, as well as the hugs god it's like back bracking stuff having to bened my knees to do it. It's sort of hard lifting in a world where prince charming was always taller. And then there is the looks from others. I will say that at the end of the day only love matters I have seen a tall woman and short guy been married for about 30 years and they still really happy. So what it all is, is what's in people's minds hight don't matter it's the heart
I've never met a woman taller than me (6'8") but I wouldn't hold it against her! Though I must admit I do find it a little frustrating when I see a beautiful tall woman dating a shorter guy and then you get shorter women telling you that you are 'too tall'!
I'm 5'7" and prefer dating a woman who is taller than I am. I prefer women 5'9" or taller. One thing I notice on discussions about height differences is that women often state that with a taller man they feel more feminine and that with a shorter man they feel more masculine. I think this is odd. I've been going to the gym for 35 years and also studied martial arts for years. I don't need to be with a much shorter woman to feel strong or masculine. Being with a taller woman does not make me feel weaker or less masculine. I'm complete within myself and being with a taller or shorter woman doesn't change who I am. For those taller women who are holding out only for very tall men, try expanding your choices to include shorter men. Remember that there aren't enough tall men to go around because taller women are also competing with shorter women for those tall men! Do the math and expand your options. (By the way, though my preference is for taller women, I also date women who are shorter than me because height is only one factor.)
I'm a short man measuring 5' 7.3". And I'm interested to be dated by you Staceyalyce as I'm 5.7" shorter than you. And I really advice tall women to date men who are either shorter or at the same heights as them. I always feel that I want to make friendship with women or teenager girls who are taller than I am and I don't feel any embaracement when I walk in public with a woman or a girl who is taller than me. Although most men feel embaraced when they meet women who are taller than them, and the same thing is true for women when they meet men who are shorter than them
Oh how I wish I had joined this site before! I am 5'10 in bare feet and have always preferred men who are taller than me, and have always assumed men wouldn't want to date a woman taller than them. It is so refreshing to hear that isn't necessarily the case and reassuring to hear other tall women's confidence in their height, and particularly wearing heels too!
Watching a tall beautiful woman date a shorter man has always been frusterating for me being 5'19" and all. I guess you can't be too biased because guys can date down and I've dated down to 5'1", but I am much happier and prefer taller women. I've dated a couple of 5'11" and a 6 footer and like it soo much better. It feels more natural for me, and it still allows them to wear heels and still feel petite.