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  • author ( 68, woman | Sandy Ridge, NC, USA )

    I find first dates a little uncomfortable, so I prefer to keep it simple, short and in an easy place, like a cafe or park.... and hopefully, we've gotten to know each other a little through emails and perhaps a few phone...  see more >>

  • author ( 63, man | Hillsboro, IL, USA )

    Our first date maybe grab a coffee and go walk in the park and maybe if we click go to dinner and a movie. GOING DUTCH of course . Lol. After all relationships are what we BOTH invest in them. Hmmm McDonald's or Applebee...  see more >>

  • author ( 64, man | Secaucus, NJ, USA )

    The first meet should always be a place of the woman's choice for her to be more comfortable in her own surroundings

  • author ( 65, man | Petersburg, VA, USA )

    Somewhere public so you feel comfortable, but quiet enough so we can talk. I think that by this point though we have progressed to having chatted on the phone and have established a basis for thinking there is a spark an...  see more >>

  • author ( 63, woman | Indianapolis, IN, USA )

    My first date depends on the person I'm going with initially. However, dinner (seafood or Italian) a dimly lighted resturant where we can engage in great communication both verbal and non verbal.

  • author ( 67, man | Redwood City, CA, USA )

    We could have a picnic; bring your dog, even if not 100% obedient. I could bring a kite & whatever your favorite picnic menu dictates, plus sparkling cider. You bring your favorite wine.

  • author ( 68, woman | Peoria, AZ, USA )

    First date is a bit different than a first meeting...a first date could be a surprise destination, for an enjoyable day or evening, or both.

  • author ( 60, man | Levant, ME, USA )

    I like to just go out for a nice dinner at a nice restaurant or me to a coffee shop or the movies I'm about opening anything

  • author ( 69, woman | Derry, NH, USA )

    Somewhere quiet for a beverage or something to eat to see how it goes. Maybe have a couple laughs or a good conversation that may lead to a second date

  • author ( 62, woman | Temple Hills, MD, USA )

    My ideal first date would be flying to Martha's Vineyards for a clam bake on the beach Lol, but I would settle for a quiet drink or dinner where we can get to know one another.

  • author ( 63, man | Long Beach, CA, USA )

    A sunset sail with wine, hor d'ourves and the lights of Naples reflected on the bay. Ah yes...and our favorite music playing in the background.

  • author ( 68, woman | Toronto, ON, CAN )

    My ideal first meeting is somewhere comfortable ( I do love a good glass of Merlot) so we can talk and see if a date is something we both want. It's really the second or third date that is important.

  • author ( 64, woman | Henderson, NV, USA )

    Honestly? Although this site gives some good options, I'd like to do something fun, like one of those painting classes, or karaoke, or go-karts. I want to see your personality, and not feel like we're both conducting an...  see more >>

  • author ( 67, man | Sacramento, CA, USA )

    Anything better than a picnic on a sewage outlet (imagery courtesy of the silent film classic GREED); anything worse than a VIP experience with backstage passes to a classic rock/alternative rock/ indie rock band (fill i...  see more >>

  • author ( 65, woman | Oakland, CA, USA )

    My idea of a first date would be a casual dinner on the ocean. Something simple, not fancy, but good conversation, the sound of the ocean, and good food.