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  • author ( 64, woman | Lakewood, OH, USA )

    a small eclectic bistro or winery at sunset....but does it matter? This is meaningless if you're interested and attracted to the person you're with, and what you see in his eyes.

  • author ( 65, woman | Gainesville, FL, USA )

    Someplace quiet to talk, eye contact, time to get to know the other. Maybe a walk together, an art show, gallery, farmers market..not too long a time.

  • author ( 69, woman | Pembine, WI, USA )

    Hiking the Piers Gorge trail about 3mi) It is a beautiful walk along the waterfalls and wooded trails especially I the fall.

  • author ( 60, woman | Brunswick, OH, USA )

    I do not consider a meet & greet the same as a first date. A meet & greet should be in a local public venue, quiet enough so that we can talk a bit. However, a first date could be a simple picnic on the beach to watch a...  see more >>

  • author ( 64, woman | Carrollton, TX, USA )

    First date would be to meet for a Happy Hour and see if we hit it off. Let's face it does not take too long to know if there is going to be some sort of connection.

  • author ( 60, woman | Kettering, England - Northamptonshire, GBR )

    Its how we meet, where we go that determains how the date would go and take it from there. Obviously in the open, if its in the evening its a Dinner date, if its in the day/afternoon it would be luch or coffee.

  • author ( 67, woman | Tampa, FL, USA )

    maybe a nice dinner and drink walk on the sand and exploring your body and mind finding out what each other enjoying each other and a little exploring of fantasies

  • author ( 60, woman | Nyack, NY, USA )

    I have an adventurous spirit. An activity outside is fine or meeting for a drink...I don't do coffee!

  • author ( 61, woman | Ottawa, ON, CAN )

    I'd like to meet in a pub where there are just enough people and the music is not too loud so we can hear each other talk.

  • author ( 60, woman | Steamboat Springs, CO, USA )

    My ideal first date would be somewhat brief, perhaps lunch or dinner or a cocktail to see if there's a connection. I do have to say that I like a man who wears cologne, and not the cheap stuff, either!

  • author ( 66, man | Saint Joseph, MO, USA )

    Casual drinks and dinner. Lots of conversation, no pressure, just getting to know each other. If the beer is cold and your comfortable, I'm perfect.

  • author ( 64, man | Gilroy, CA, USA )

    Lots to see and do there, including just walking on the beach, or near Asilomar, walking on the trail between Fisherman's Wharf and Cannery Row, and deciding where we want to eat, the Aquarium.

  • author ( 65, woman | Solana Beach, CA, USA )

    First I want to meet for coffee, then late lunch at say, The Wild Note in Solana Beach if that works out maybe a movie. I like to play it by ear and see if we like each other and have things in common.

  • author ( 68, woman | Richmond, VA, USA )

    First dates are always for getting to know your friend better. Hopefully, a quiet place where conversation is easy.

  • author ( 60, man | San Francisco, CA, USA )

    I prefer very casual first dates that provide a comfortable environment to talk and get to know each other. My favorite first date is probably just meeting for a walk or hike somewhere pleasant. Meeting for coffee/tea or...  see more >>